Thursday, June 29, 2023
80s punk
WfW ~ the men in black...
Jack looked over his shoulder, his right hand clawing a little at his left wrist as though he had an itch he couldn't quite scratch.
"Is it even available with health insurance?"
"After Cori Ann. You know. That woman I was falling in love with that I met at the art exhibit? Remember? About 15 years ago when we were doing that job trying to catch a guy cheating on his wife? Cori Ann made these amazing portraits where she painted with dry spice and used herbs so that you didn't even realize it was made with actual plants. They looked like photographs."
Sunday, June 25, 2023
Sunday ~ Old Stone Church Cemetery
Saturday, June 24, 2023
Saturday ~ Kate's Mountain
The mountain was named for Catherine "Kate" Carpenter who took refuge on it with her daughter, Frances, in September of 1756 after Indians attacked the settlements along the Virginia border. Her husband, Nicholas, had gone for help to Fort Dinwiddie on the Jackson River but was killed when Indians then attacked the fort. Kate decided to relocate to Staunton, VA where Frances grew up and married, later inheriting her parents' 950-acre property in White Sulphur Springs, which became the site for the [link>] Greenbrier Resort.
Looking down at the Greenbrier Resort |
On the one hand, it was more than I expected. Almost like being in a rainforest, it was thick and lush with old-growth trees and so much greenery.
When I got back, my neighbor said she was surprised I hadn't seen any bears, and quite honestly, that was something in the back of my mind the whole time we were up there also.
When I reached a point where I could safely turn around, I still wasn't at the top of the mountain, but the road in one direction was blocked by a fallen tree, and I wasn't sure where the other road would lead. It had begun to feel like I was intruding on nature, and on the wildlife, just with the sound of my car crunching on the gravel and shale road. It was time to go back down and go home.
Friday, June 23, 2023
When we've done enough
*DILLIGAF: Do I Look Like I Give A Fill-In-Your-Own-F-Word |
We've worked hard enough at a relationship or marriage, struggling to keep it together when we are making more than 95% of the effort for that to happen.
We've worked hard enough at a job where we are underpaid, underappreciated, and overworked.
We don't have to be perfectionists. We don't have to do it all. We don't have to be everything to everyone at the expense of our own happiness or our own health.
Sometimes it's okay to shout "*DILLIGAF!!!!" at the top of your lungs.
I was trying to finish wallpapering the bathroom in a tight and awkward corner which was painted the same color as the opposite wall. Originally I had realized it was going to be a difficult task and since it is behind the door (when opened) and probably never going to be really noticeable, I would just leave it like that.
So this morning I woke early, determined to odd patch the walls with pieces cut, like a puzzle, from the remaining paper. Overlapping a leaf here, faking a matching strip there.
It was in the midst of wrestling with a long piece in the corner and a razor knife that would not fit where I needed to cut because of the angle and the necessity of actually being able to hold it that I realized it.
I'VE DONE ENOUGH.
It's a rental house, and while I'm a renter that takes responsibility for the upkeep of some things as if I owned it, in this particular case, I've done enough.
He's trying to sell it out from under me, with no concern for where I might have to go if the new buyers don't want to rent it. [However, the truth is, that he probably won't be able to sell it since it is in a flood zone and has flooded in the past which is making potentially interested parties walk away ~ flood insurance is VERY expensive ~ and tho he has dropped the price twice now, it won't make up for the cost of the insurance.]
He repaid me for the wallpaper and the paint, but he didn't pay me for the labor ... the hours and hours my OCD made me spend to make it look perfect or kept me awake thinking and worrying about it. [Not to mention the hours of listening to the ghost of my father telling me I could do better ... echoes of my childhood where I never felt good enough, and nothing I ever did was good enough. No job I got, no college degree I achieved.]
In the process of painting the bathroom and parts of the kitchen so far, I have cleaned in places the previous tenant of five years NEVER cleaned. [And let me tell you, that was so much fun. NOT.]
So I will finish my projects that will eventually leave this house better than I found it when I moved in. But I no longer have to listen to ghosts that tell me I'm not enough, or that I'm not doing enough.
Because I Am Enough.
Wednesday, June 21, 2023
WfW ~ The Artisan's Loft Continues...
Image Source: Bing.com |
Sunday, June 18, 2023
Saturdays are for adventures!
Two years in the waiting, I finally was able to go to the [link>] West Virginia Renaissance Festival!
One of the best things of the day were the random muscians scattered about! |
Cosplay wasn't just participating performers and actors, but also attendees! |
Apart from performers on horses, sometimes it was hard to distinguish between performers and attendees! |
This performer scared the bejeebers out of me at first! |
Glass blowing demonstration. |
These "nuns" were hysterical! |
I thought at first that this metalsmith would tie into my Words for Wednesday story. But then when I was going through a brochure I picked up from [link>] Somewear Beyond Coin Mint, I found something else! Did you know that da Vinci designed a coin press?!?! |
Thursday, June 15, 2023
WfW ... time flies!
"How can I help you, boys?"
Monday, June 12, 2023
Monday ...
< One community I want to go back and visit when I have time to actually stop and explore is Paint Bank, VA [<link] where there was a beautiful old home that has been turned into The Lemon Hotel [<link].
Image Source: Wikipedia |
Photograph of the Jefferson Building at Old Sweet Springs captured by Frances Benjamin Johnston in the 1930s. Image Source: Wikipedia |
VA311 alone was worth the drive, and I definitely plan on taking it again in the fall when the leaves start to change.
Friday, June 9, 2023
Friday at last ...
I did get most of the vegetables put into pots, still need to get more soil this weekend to finish.
This is my upcycled scarecrow made from a lampshade I no longer used, and some empty aluminum cans. So far it seems to be working nicely.
His Royal Hindness Charlie's favorite place to oversee his kingdom is sitting on the highest pallet where he can observe all of the neighbors, especially Brenda and Joey, whose yard he is looking at here.
This rose was an unexpected surprise on the climbing roses I got for the backyard. The bush is supposed to be pink roses. But the yellow reminds me of one of my past mothers-in-law. I considered her to be more of a mom than an in-law and called her my Gypsy Mom. She loved yellow roses. She has been gone now for several years, and I miss her oodles and goblollies.
I have finally been able to get a car!!! It is a new-2-me 2017 Honda Fit with all kinds of bells and whistles that make me feel like I'm finally in the 21st century. I cannot even begin to describe the excitement of being totally independent again. Her name is Pearl since her paint is called White Orchid Pearl, and while I haven't had time to fully plan all of our adventures, Charlie and I are thrilled.
WfW late... June 7
Image Source: IMDB.com |
Annoyed that the attention was no longer on her, Rose shrugged her shoulders and grabbed her cat that was kneading the back of the office sofa, silently watching Rose's drama unfold. She stormed into the front office that was serving as a reception area with an air of disappointment floating behind her.
"Helena Bonham Carter? Really, Simon? In what role?"